Luke treated his girls to a day at the spa on Newport Beach on this week’s episode of Fox’s “More to Love.”

Over massages, lavish spa meals, hot tubs with champagne, avocado and cucumber facials, the remaining eight lovely bachelorettes bonded with each other while still trying to put their best self forward to convince Luke that they are worthy of the remaining coveted silver rings.

At the mixer, vulnerabilities were exposed on a deeper level and Luke got to see. His strong emotional and physical connection with Mandy intensified and Melissa’s boost in confidence and self-esteem has the bachelor’s heart stretched in numerous directions.

If all of the skinny-minnies on the Bachelor have you feeling like there is no hope for an averaged-sized single guy or gal like yourself to find true love, think again. Fox network is just about to start  casting contestants for its new dating reality show “More to Love.”

Women who aren’t as glitzy and tiny as the Bachelorette hopefuls will vie for one man, who is being labeled as a “Kevin James type,” by going on extravagant dates. One new category that is being added is having contestants undergo a makeover, but not the physical kind. Instead, producers of More to Love want to send the message to viewers as well as the contestants that you don’t have to be a size 2 to find love. Producers are adamant that the women will not skinny down in order to make them more enticing to their potential suitor.

For any woman who has gained 5, 10 pounds or maybe even more after finding the guy of your dreams, you must read the book, Your Big Fat Boyfriend. It is a delightful but informative guide on how to stay thin (or get thinner) even if your guy is a pancake-eating, burger-chomping, sweat pant-loving couch potato!

Author Jenna Bergen arms you with oodles of information on what to eat, why to eat it and why and how to exercise. Rather than telling you to give in to your boyfriend’s less than healthy ways just because you love him, she encourages you to become accountable for your own health (and size) by learning the self rewards of healthy eating, consistent exercise and all of the goodness that flows from these essential healthy lifestyle behaviors.